it goes quickly and smoothly ... my separation dragged on for 9 months ...

well this is 4 months now?

how long it takes to get everything untangled ...

she walked out 4 months ago and it was ME that finally made the appt with the mediator.

and now she has no place to live. i won't have her cart our daughter around from house to house as she "crashes" where ever

and we can't afford rent + mortgage. she's put is in a lovely spot. so. freakin. happy.

she's not thinking very clearly at all ... and your poor daughter.

that's insane.