you have to confirm it

your probably on fan list then

I confirm them, but didn't know If i had to add them back..if that makes sense lol

no once they confirm your it will show up....I know I was very confused, which isn't hard for a few days on here too

confused is my middle name lol

I'm a beginner too. I totally understand your confusion. It will make better sense in another week. If you are not sure if they are

your friend or not, go up to the very top, close to the left side and click on "My Friends". If you have them as a friend they are listed.