used to make anti-bad-dream-monster-go-away-spray (tm) for the kids.

water and a little bit of peppermint oil in a spray bottle, few spritzes around the room, worked every time.

I think it would be a bit strange if you made some of that for your boyfriend, Kitty xD

don't forget to spritz under the bed . . .

VERY. xD

thought we were talking kid, here, sorry.

votes for tender lovemaking, in that case.

::lesigh:: I wish my sex drive would come back.

sex is bad.

... since when are your views on that subject so drastically different?

how it ended up in the "bad" category for you?

entertheraven, how come the drive drove away?

since it destroyed my relationship

and almost ended me and devins

sex is a big part of any relationship, regardless of whether you admit it or not.

sex.

I think I need to be with a girl before I can decide whether or not my sex drive is actually gone, or if I'm gay.

why are all relationships based on sex?

and then people wonder why it doesnt work

one thing I hate, though, is that men are so often assumed to have higher sex drives than women do. So not true.

sex drive is a highly individual thing, like a fingerprint, and not gender connected at all.

just because sex is an important part of any relationship does NOT mean the relationship is based on sex.

I've always been infamous for having a crazy sex drive. Then it just... went away. It makes no sense to me.

well, you ask good questions, kittlylicious.

to me, it's not that a relationship is *based* on sex, but that sex is a key part of connecting.

plus, it feels good.

to me, that matters. I couldn't feel really intimately connected to someone if the relationship were sexless. That's friendship.

to have a lover.

entertheraven maybe it's just a temporary thing. Health and mood matter. Sex drive is a good barometer of what else is going on.

she felt like having sex with her bf. It used to be one of those things that I thrived on. Being that close to someone made life better.

strangely enough, when my life was most tumultuous was when I would crave sex the most. Now life is OK.

hmms.

maybe you need a little more drama in your life then!

not too much, but just enough.

this no sex thing is beginning to cause some drama.

my boyfriend is beginning to think I don't love him because I'm not "paying attention" to him.

would probably feel that way about it, too.

attraction and sex drive can be very fickle things.