if anyone can explain how my husband can stand in the middle of a completely empty, totally filthy house and not know what needs cleaned?
    
        
        It takes a lot of practice. I'm almost that good, but not quite.
    
     
        it was like cleaning with a 5 year old.  I told him to do something and then when he was done, I had to tell him what to do next.
    
      
        OMG. We are married to the same man.