talking about me on the phone w/ his boyfriend, knowing I can hear

if he'd harrass me I could quit and EEO him

mantra for continuing work: people used to do much, much harder work for less pay, or no pay...

It's really disheartening when you have a co-worker with some kind of personality problem. I hope you can document enough stuff to nail him

or maybe maneuver so he does something dumb in front of one of the bosses

interesting thought about this job: my coworker is just like my brother, who is in prison for selling meth....

I think I am in this job to work through my issues w/ my brother, who I have no contact with (other than helping raise his children)

maybe. and maybe some people are just toxic... there's a kind of person I've never been able to be immune to, because they just attack

over and over again no matter what you do - all I could do was disengage or fight them off

but being in the same room with them just didn't work