hmm... I use a "grid" when I cross stitch.... maybe that's it?

That must be it... So do you stitch on or off the grid then? Hehehe

I stitch off the grid, I only use it for reference!

Hah! That sounds so fitting... We should all use the grid for reference only!

that sounds like a great idea!

Using the grid for reference only sounds like a very good idea.