So learn to let go, and stop harping over what's hers and not yours.

Don't take something just because "she has it" or "it's hers" learn to live your life without imitation

Have some originality. Stop building on things she started.

Create you own path away from hers. And don't just keep trying to outdo her. You'll be the one suffering anyway. She doesn't give a damn

Just because you've succeeded before doesn't make you win. It makes people think you're a copycat. You're in her shadow.

It makes people think you are picking up things she ditched. So move on, throw the past away. Get someone of your own.