amen brotha, be upfront and let us move the hell on if you're not interested

in my experience a girl will NEVER rebuke a guy who is interested (unless he's completely crazy), bc they'd rather have the attn. perhaps

but they will "lead u on" as long as they see fit. they like to drive the pace. which is fine but i also have a say, no?

yes, you are crazy.

very reminiscent of high school...

grrrrr, come on girls i need some feedback here

Sorry I'm no help in the dating scene. I suck at it.

that's my 'problem' i SUCK at not showing my emotions. seems like a game bc u don't want someone to know u actually like them. good grief

i don't understand why if u like spending time w/someone u can't just say that. oh well...

perhaps there are other things that she needs to consider? also, baggage can help with building walls and playing more games.

we both have 4yo sons, which is how we met essentially. i think my problem is why the games instead of just 'let's move on'? make sense?

because we do like the attention, and even though she may not be ready, she likes the idea of having you around for when she is ready.

am i the only one who sees a problem with that?

not

no. i don't like it when i find myself doing that, but it's not really a conscious decision.

however, it seems that things will change only when a girlfriend brings it up. if a guy brings it up, most likely it won't go over well

i apologize for our gender.

haha, no apology necessary, i just want to be dealt with honestly. I-N-T-E-G-R-I-T-Y anyone?

i very much enjoy that you just apologized for your whole gender