decision made - phew - it was easy once i did a pros and cons - I'm staying where I am - thanks everyone
velvet
is
glad you found the decision not too bad 
justinlevy
says
I always use a big sheet of paper to weigh out pros and cons about things like that
Tuna
says
okay no more bitching then
ha ha - i'm allowed to bitch about changes, just because it's not perfect...
funkyB
says
good on you and I think they are really lucky to keep you