sometimes people don't realize they're snarking in the narration but I hate it if I don't know they're doing it for the character and not because it's their opinion
I do worry about whether I might be the other side of this sometimes, because I play a lot of judgy assholes and sometimes I think it comes across as OOCly passive aggressive when it's not intended that way
but also: i have no reason to assume that's the case here, and regardless, it feels Bad
yes, it was exactly that. Granted I made some assumptions, but instead of PMing me they put it in the narrations ie, "X would never do Y." when I had assumed Y four comments ago