I hope some people can help her out, thanks in advance

I hope so too

would they mind if I contact a decently large trans influencer? i'm friends with Danny the Trans Dad on TikTok/FB, but I don't want to do this if they aren't safe or aren't in a good place to be outed like that

We can't offer money but if it came to it, we have a trans-safe housing option in WA currently open.