gen question. if i'm questioning my gender, but know that im not a cis girl, and lots of guys have had crushes on me, BUT i pass as a cis girl, would that be fruity of them, or.
because im not a girl, so thats kinda fruity. but i PASS as one. so they probably thought i was one.
because im not a girl, so thats kinda fruity. but i PASS as one. so they probably thought i was one.
this started as a joke but now i'm genuinely curious
GENDER* not sexuality
see i've been thinking about this too
fighting the urge to ask reddit
honestly i kinda don't know man
ok my friend said it likely isn't fruity, but then i provided more context and it turns out the guy is probably transphobic
(the guy as in one of the people who liked me)
geez
here's the convo for context 
