So I dabbled back into BDO. I wasn't completely oblivious and had read the BIG headlines of patchnotes, but the little things went under my radar

BiiiIIIiiiIIIIiiIIIIIItch

So I log in and I ask about .. honestly I forget

NO WAIT

It was a comment

"Oh wow, they finally added a fast travel to a useful but extremely remote island on the ocean"

AND SOMEONE GOES

PFFFT They added that like 3 weeks ago.

Okay.

STILL COOL but kay

Later on.

It's less a question and more me playing catch up

"Wait so the new weapon upgrades will take 2 of the SAME MAXED weapons to get???"

AND THE SAME CULPRIT GOES

They announced that in June, everyone has them already. You would've been prepared if you hadn't quit.

Okay, seriously though. What are you actually mad at me for

Because this ain't it

They logged out (it's 1am over there)

But I'm struggling between confronting them and just peacing the fuck out and playing another server lol

And by another server I mean NA over Asia which would be starting from nothing and a totally different account

shockingly, people have lives

I wanna play, but I am not here for this behavior

RIGHT?

I mean, I left to play other games

It's not a crime........

who was the person being a little bitch about your absense?

are they an officer?

Thank god no

But they are a longstanding member with some ranking, just not officer

cuz I'd cuff them upside the head, and tell them they could be getting you caught up with what's relevant and useful as a QOL, instead of wasting text air

I stepped down from Guild lead when I "quit" and gave all leadership rights to another officer

Yeah, I didn't say anything at the time

More because I was so caught off guard

your standing still counts as higher, imo, even if you went into retirement

Mayybe. It's awkward

People seem unhappy with the successor and are hoping I'll take back the reins but..... I don't really want to lol

SO I'M WONDERING

Are they mad at me leaving or mad that they are unhappy with the new guy in charge

I can't tell

But I don't think they're annoyed I'm playing catch up

I think they might have some resentment built up or feel I abandoned them

WHICH IS WILD because of my 3 years running that guild I never once had help from most of these players showing resentment

The ones who seem...... chill are the ones who were helping me throughout, so I think they get it

ANYWAY geeeeeeeeeeeeez. I just wanted to play .-.

Now I feel like I'm not even welcome

yeah sounds like this person is so mad that you left in the first place, they're trying to drive you away for good

which is just wild to me but some people get weird ideas in their heads

and especially if they weren't very helpful during your time running the place, or whatever

it just feels very aggressive

how dare you, the person who did the thinking for them, leave them to have to think for themselves

i wouldnt give them a second thought

concentrate on the peeps you want to see and be there for

and if the GL and officers start giving lip in return, you know which way the cookie is crumbling

Yeah, I might step back a couple days and try again. I mean, I just visited a lot of the officers and some longer standing members in Malaysia. So it would kinda suck to just cut them off entirely because of one sour guy

bro needs to touch grass\

even if you nolife a game it's still easy to miss stuff, i do it all the time in the game i'm obsessed with

and people have lives

honestly yeah sounds like salt

what a wet blanekt