Kitty and Arturia are also allowed I think. lmao
it's funny because Fedi to Aventurine is like a sliding scale of obvious affection with Dan Heng somewhere in the middle. they're all dumb
DH 23, 24
hyperviolence: LOL ok so I think something Dan Heng would find cute is probably curiosity? Archivist enjoys answering questions (as long as they're not personal hhsdf) or arrogance...idk I feel he shows he's comfortable around someone easiest by teasing and poking fun with a straight face. Arrogant people are. Easy targets for that.
not because of relevance or anything noooo
looks at his past life "partner" Yingxing.....and the whole of the High Cloud Quintet even
24. Fastest way to endear him to you is probably...acceptance. Fighting beside him. Accepting his help. Accepting what he is. Also probably just being someone to protect -looks at the younger Outsiders he's just. adopting.-
snappyshell: 1. Cuddler? Depends on whith who, but also Dan Heng isn't particularly choosy when it's freaking cold out. Might huddle next to warm person with like 3 apologies. I think he'd be. Embarrassed about cuddling in general tbh but actually does love it. slaps him on the head: this dragon is TOUCH STARVED
25. dealing with having a crush.............as someone who is aro how does that. what's having a crush even like-
not quite crush but ig if you're important to him in any way he's just going to worry about you constantly??? Good luck. Fussy.
3. Receptive to hugs? Do they instigate them?
He is now. Haunted boat did alot for breaking down some of Aventurine's walls tbh hsdhfsd hugs good, he likes them!! His sister was huggy I think so it reminds him of home. Maybe eventually he'll stop thinking about how easy it'd be to hold a knife to his back...
or to the other's back. intrusive thoughts yahoo
I think it's.....I was gonna say rarer but tbh he has instigated several hugs. Growth??
7. Favorite place to be touched?
HM. Not sure. Hair ruffles are a good bet. Likes those alot. Also if he's moving around too much it's nice when someone like. holds his hands still? Basically telling anxiety to SLOW DOWN
14. Do they like having their hair played with?
Speaking of hair ruffles lmao YEA. Loooves that. (yknow as long as his hair isn't getting like PULLED.)
15. How about being groomed/grooming someone else? (washing/hair brushing/makeup etc.)
Oh for sure. It's a sort of vulnerability he definitely doesn't allow just anyone. Fridtjof could probably get away with it tho

and I do think Aventurine would be thrilled to do makeup for others?? Jade probably taught him...
auto emojis on plurk will kill me
Aven's probably like the only person Fridtjof would be out of robes or armor around comfortably. (Not like... naked but with the under-armor clothes on.)
Touch starved dragon. He deserves all the snuggling (✿◡‿◡)
Medli45: HE'S PRETTY HUGGY AS FAR AS AURELIA IS CONCERNED
HEHEHEHE listen I reiterate that boat has been weirdly good for him and breaking down walls fr
also look at Aurelia. She's so huggable (no)
she is the least huggable person on boat
Morgana9971: WHEN IS A MONSTER NOT A MONSTER. WHEN YOU LOVE HERRRR
I know so much about him but, 13 and 20 for Aven?
1. Are they a cuddler?
ARTURIA....HM....I think yes but only when she initiates it. Holding her when she's not ready I feel might overwhelm her or make her feel trapped?? It's a vibe. But I could see her seeking hugs from mom and hanging off Fedi very casually kjhdfkjsd
like Fedi is just like ok this is what she's like. She almost likes it better because he doesn't reciprocate. But he allows it. She wonders if it's because it's how he is or if it's because he does care for her... (it's both)
ueueueue what if i sobbed
ofc she tries this after the falling out and she's gonna get a gun to the heart. She laughs but there is a longing there....an ache....
they used to have an odd understanding....
but also I could see Arturia getting cuddly to make someone uncomfy and act out. Listen. You see how she is with personal space. LMAO
3. Receptive to hugs? Do they instigate them?
Oh ig I kinda answered that huh LMAO yes but she much MUCH prefers to initiate them!
11. What's their love-language?
I think it's quality time! I think alot of what Arturia does is to understand others, to see their true selves. SHe's DELIGHTED to be playing a duet with Sunday. To have people try to understand her back. That makes her so so happy I think
Sharing thoughts and hearts and feelings and music with each other. So beautiful. Time well spent in her book.
awwwww that's so cute,,,, yknow for a fugitive. this wouldn't be the first time a fugitive of the state was cute in my books quite frankly
I think acts of service would surprise get her in the heart tho, but she's. It's again if it's a thoughtful gift, showing someone knows her, yknow?
c_avnas: JHSKDHLKFHKDS BEING ON THE RUN CAN BE LONELY OK
thinks about how she's often found telling stories to kids, and teaching people like Kreide lessons through stories and music
what are stories if not ways to connect to others...
Morgana9971:
13. Sharing/trading clothes?He would be such a gremlin about this. Maybe not at the IPC much because he had an IMAGE TO MAINTAIN but I think he's stolen like. Shoes and hairties from Topaz
on boat he likes jackets and just snatching whatever. Clothing can be a connection to what he cares for. He was SO HAPPY to get a coat from home somehow?? And idk alot of things are Big on him but it's fun to 1. see how long friend takes to notice and 2. I forget my second point but WARM
oh yeah. this is the guy that kept his father's shirt as long as possible. The lucky charm from his mom. The necklace from his sister. I think Aven can get very sentimental about this stuff...
wriothesley just eventually loses track of his coat altogether...
not me thinking of like stealing one of Aurelia's gothic ruffled dresses. I think he'd rock the look.
bro hes gonna love Wriothesley's coat HAHAHA
warm. furry. smells like tea.
very calming, good for anxiety treatment hshdhgfds
20. Cooking/sharing meals?
OK SO THIS ONE'S....TRICKY....
food as a love language. He mainly eats more regularly because others want him to. He wants to be nice and healthy to be a regular part of Aurelia's balanced meal plan JKHSDKJFH
but he just. forgets sometimes. because it's. there was just a lot of times he just had to eat whatever was given to him. anyway. Can probably cook basics but is bad at remembering to do so.
stores snacks. alot of snacks.
sharing meals though....that's nice for him. He likes that. Ratio forgets to eat sometimes too so sometimes they eat together just for that accountability I think kjhsdkjfhs
he hasn't consciously noticed it, but when sharing a mean, Aventurine actually does like. Actually taste the food more. It makes it taste better. It's nice.
I suppose post current event she will actually have clothes other than that dress. it's theoretically possible she'll wear them. it's two layers of hypothetical deep that he could get his hands on them
SURE. LET HIM TRY THE DRESS JSDHKJSFHS
wait crying yea the thing holding me back on sharing clohes on boat is everyone has like ONE OUTFIT
and now....the world is opening up....
sqh is really unimaginably wealthy for having a second backup outfit in his sleeves that he never actually changes into
24. Fastest way to endear them to someone?
Needing help apparently. -looks at Sunday- But I also think it's people having patience with him on things he doesn't understand and not looking down on him for it?? He really likes the Doctor for talking to him like normal I think and walking him through stuff like art and feelings kjhdfjgkd
It's hard to tell with him but if he's seeking you out that's. Pretty likely he likes you and values your opinion
Also if you have the time please watch this
Operator Record of his it's. So cute.
Fedi's favorite color is blue because of this I think hhsdhfds
which is funny you'd think it'd be red with all the red but no. Sky blue. .....and I have Dan Heng's fave color as red even tho he's a very blue and green guy....because red = Astral Express = home
14. Do they like having their hair played with?
hsdfhds again difficult to say. He doesn't get it. He doesn't like his hair mussed so much that it basically makes him out of uniform and propriety!!! Why do this. What is the meaning. Not to mention rufling his hair may bump against his halo which is Very Uncomfortable
But also I do think Arturia played with his hair. As did his parents. Just gentle affection. He doesn't get it but it's not. Unpleasant?? Perhaps it's this association that...Ratio brushed Fedi's bangs a couple times in a thread he wasn't feeling well and Fedi did kind of find it calming
ALso I do think he would allow kids to play with his hair. They're children. These sparkly hairties aren't harming anyone....weirdly good babysitter because of this???
12. Play-wrestling? Sparring?
Oh please he's all over this I think. It's something he's GOOD at and understands!! And it's training and improving and very practical. Please let him spar with you. Doesn't even need the gun, although the "play" in the wrestling might be. difficult for him to remember jkshdflhkds
Isa and I joke/plan that while Fedi and Argenti are kind of at odds with each other, we think they'll really start getting along when sparring!!
.......he could toss Sunday across the room. Should he? Debatable.
I play them both but I also joke Aventurine would love being thrown around. Like kids getting tossed at couches for enrichment.
it's totally to rebuild the strength of his shields. yep.
also not exaclty sparring but Fedi is also finding a strong interest in dance training with Laurentina???? Communication is hard....alternate methods facinate him I think
I made that man 5 foot nothing tall he is TOSSABLE
also thank you for asking about Fedi I also love him very much thank you for loveing h im
ofc!!!! i care him and greatly enjoy the him!!!