There is no romantic state of the RP. Currently I just have Iroh in a game, and well much like myself he's a bit beyond shipping and the romantic part of his life.
Favorite Ships I've played: Pamela x Belus (Tarot Cafe) Lucian x Sonya (Underworld) Kio Kaidou (Loveless) x Morrigan Aensland (Darkstalkers) Kyouya Ootori (Ouran) x Jing (King of Bandits)
I don't do ship much anymore but there are a few I still enjoy: Pamela x Belus is still my top and likely always will be. Lucian x Sonya as well. Jinx & Ekko (Arcane) Pip Bernadotte x Seras Victoria (Hellsing)
I am more than willing to play ships out, but it's been awhile and I'm pretty sure there's no one interested in those kind of logs, with an old man at least.
For shipping I do prefer emotions and connection over purly physical, and have always been fine with fading to black or thread out however much detail the other wants.