I don't know what the fuck is in the water this week, but I've had multiple friends suddenly open up to me about major relationship problems they're having and I am. Slightly fried

Like one of them in a (hopefully) good way tbf, the friend who I have been praying breaks up with her shitty boyfriend for the last two years might FINALLY be done with him

But then literally the next day we (my partner and I) were hanging out with another friend and he ended up kind of pouring his heart out about how him and his wife have been trying to do poly but kind of fucking it on the communication front

And he's apparently been trying to work up the nerve to talk to us about it for ages because we're the only stable and relatively drama-free poly folk he knows

I LOVE OUR FRIENDS AND I AM GLAD THEY FEEL LIKE THEY CAN TALK TO US

But if one more person tries to have a heart to heart with me I am going to implode

The day after that I went bouldering with my best friend who got married in April and I was like "if you're about to tell me you're having relationship problems I'm walking directly out of the nearest window"