yeah, I'm afraid to clear it out though because I knew someone, at some point who took that as a grave insult and would go ... crazy

not hurting people's feelings who may notice - even if you don't

Yeah, What Cajsa said. which is always more important than the example what I think of anything I look at that list of people I dont know.

*of .... Being defriended can be very upsetting, especially if you genuinely like someone and just dont get to talk much.

just think of how you have felt about people before even if you havent gotten a chance to really speak with them.

feels the same...it hurts to be defriended so I don't like doing it to others