My sonne, mark well these wordes, for they are not of light account. The Counsell of the Familie is thine to beare, yet the Burthen of dayly Labour is not thine.
Set not thine eye upon the Bookes of Accompt as though therein were hid the Fate of Kingdoms; for Numbers may reckon Silver and Corne, yet they tell thee not who is Friend, nor who is Foe.
The Steward shal gather Rentes, the Merchant shal tend to Bargaines, and the Scribe shal keepe the tallies of our House; but thou, as Heire, must resolve where Honour standeth, and by whose Banner we shal hold fast.
Remember, the choice of Allegiance is not borne of Figures, but of Faith and of Blood. He that would give over such Judgement to the Clerke or the Banker, maketh himself no Lord but a Servant.
Never in∣terrupt any speaker. It is considered as the height of ill manners to interrupt any person while speaking, by speak∣ing yourself, or calling off the at∣tention of the company to any subject. This, however, every child knows.
Whoever is admitted or sought for, in com∣pany, upon any other account than that of his merit and manners, is never respected there, but only made use of. We will have such a one, for he sings prettily; we will in∣vite such a one to a ball, for he dances well; we will have such a one to supper, for he is always joking and laughing;