been looking at enough femme clothing online lately that TikTok just sent me an ad for lingerie with the title "get your boyfriend to buy this for you"
and I'm like
well fuck, maybe I need a boyfriend
you don't have one? I'm surprised
^ i was about to ask this
nope. 5 girlfriends, no boyfriend.
finding dateable men is hard.
last time I went looking the only guy who wasn't looking to sleep with one of my partners rather than me
instead wanted to be stripped, wrapped in duct tape & watched while he struggled free, but no gay stuff.
I declined his generous offer.
I suspect the additional complication of finding a dateable man who will & can afford to buy me lingerie is damned near impossible
(I am not actually this mercenary.)
I'm genuinely surprised. I'd say to download grindr but like... I feel like that's just for hookups.
(I have been upon the dating apps. the men on the dating apps are. well. they may be dateable by someone. but they are not for me.)
Gods yeah dating apps in general are rancid for finding men.