I feel MacOS Tahoe is full of unexpected and intermittent bugs. I do not recommend upgrading for those who depend on their Macs until Apple gets them ironed out. It appears there are settings in the system settings that my mac simply ignores right now.
Swamp_Daddy: they are aware my network is an exception to norms. Some of the issues I am having would probably be low priority. Though I do notice they eventually get fixed. Usually after I've done workarounds.