click on the Alerts button at the top of the window...

yeah but only options then r to click on person or cancel. ?????

you should see more options. Click on their name, go to their profile and click on the options near their friends list...

you should see a "add" option among several more

agrees with @# abarrera. I see them. Maybe it's a karma count thing?

thanks guys. added already but now im waiting 4 request from them. maybe they unfanned me already. What did I do? Ah fuck it

don't stress, they'll eventually accept u

they did

actually, got it wrong. they didnt. what they doing playing fast and loose with my emotions by fanning and then unfanning? traumatised now