last night i told someone i was bi & he said he doesnt believe in bisexuality & he thinks its just people being greedy, i was hurt & i cried
because i can totally control who i am attracted to right
that guy knows shit
i didnt deal with it, i just left and cried on vo's shoulder
sweety!
what an asshole... i heard the same when i told someone i am bi and i told him that he is just jealous because he
doesn't have the wide choice when it comes to that 
yea and i thought he'd be understanding because he himself was gay
yea, im bisexual because i want everyone for myself pfft asshole
That is pretty close minded. I think the only reason a lot of people chose one or the other is because society outs so much pressure on
sexuality
But if we where allowed to truly think and feel freely then then your gender wouldn't choose who you love, your heart would.
exactly, when i first found out i was into woman i thought i was a lesbian but i didnt understand how i liked men also and i was just
confused about my sexuality because society makes it so we are either gay or straight
and its a lot of pressure
we should take after the europeans
yea europeans are much more open minded
yeah i never get why people say "you are lesbian" when they hear i like women since there is more than just gay and straight...
right, or when i say im bi, people ask the retarded question "so youre sexually attracted to women?" and idk if it just me, but its a little
stupid of a question, i say yes anyway but its like....NO SHIT
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I view sexual attraction as a spectrum, with a certain degree of fluidity... personally, I'm attracted more to individuals than to generics.
it's kinda like asking a straight woman "so you are sexually attraccted to guys?"
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I don't identify myself as bisexual very often because I hate the "oh, so you'll sleep with anything" stereotype.
right chandi, and its an awkward question anyway, once someone asked if i think of women during sex, and it was a little too personal
actually i never slept with a woman nor did i kiss them... but i KNOW i am attracted to them and that's enough for me
oh god that is just rude, Scatty, some people are really impossible
see the thing with being out as bi people think youre a slut hoe and when people actually know me, they know im ver respectful
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I also hate the whole double standard, that if you've not been sexually intimate with anyone of particular sex, than your self-identified
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orientation is invalid... those who identify as heterosexual aren't expected to have sex to validate that identity.
right i havent slept with a woman but i have made out and touched yet to some people its not enough
exactly
its so judgmental
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what really matters is you know who you are, you know your feelings, and you do your damnedest not to let close-minded people deter you from
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living your life to the fullest.
yeah.. just like i use to hear "you can't be bi, you are with the same man for 8 years" and i am like "Hello??"
but its ok i forgive them, because they dont know what its like\
rofl right
yea, bisexual
both sexes
lol
but i do prefer to be with men tbh
its much less complicated
theres a lot more emotional issues when its two girls