he wants me to come see his new house, after kicking me out of my mom's the day she died. AS IF I care about his cozy new place.

correction, he told me to find a new place the day we burried her, same effect I'd say.

I have no use for either him or my so called "family", well other than my kids. I love them of course!

Just do the trasnaction w/o saying a word if you can -- Wear shades the whole time to..

did the deed & of course he insisted on showing me the house.

He may have his own house, but my apt is 2x as big & I won't have to plow in the winter or mow the lawn or fix things so there