where do you see mutual fans?

Uhm... It may have to do with personal settings? I was wondering that too...

macmom: When someone Fans you and you visit their site you can fan them back or add them as a friend. I wondered what the difference was

Maybe it means that mutual fans can see each others' public posts but if you did a post friends only they wouldn't see it.

That makes sense, but can you make a friends only Plurk? I didn't even notice!!

Yes, look under your name next to the box where you type your plurk. It reads private plurks, languages and options. Click on Private Plurks

ooooohh, I see. Thanks!

Your most welcome.