for me, cold is better, because it numbs you to the point you won't feel the pain anymore.

Gosh, I super agree with that. But coldness has also it's negative part, You won't feel anymore to the point that you won't love

somebody again

it's remarkable if a love lasts forever. usually, love brings pain, and when cold comes, it may not be taken away, but it numbs.

it numbs the pain you're feeling.

Yeaaah. I wish i'll experience that one.