fuzzy fleece "memory" quilt - wrap her in grandma hugs?

sounds like a great idea. Know of any instructions anywhere?

try Project Linus for easy fleece quilts - there are directions that should be easy to follow. www.linusidaho.org/

Project Linus is a great place; also basic internet search or local fabric store usually has what you need in directions

Or a memory album for her to put pics & her stories in writing.