why you feel you can't tell anyone?

if it was a positive experience, planned, with a S.O., etc.

it was a lovely experience but it wasn't with an S.O. and it was a one thing lead to another scenario

also if you're not like... 12 or 13 and this person was significantly older so it's illegal....

so what's the problem?

regrets nothing to be honest but I don't think many of my friends/family would approve of the circumstances\.

if they're particularly closed minded?

knows that feeling that I can't tell anyone is silly but I can't shake the feeling. Part of me expects (and sort of wants) to be reprimanded

if it's 2 consenting adults and it was a good experience then good for you! Congrats!

Doesn't see that you did anything to be ashamed of! If you enjoyed it, then it's great

for doing it. I also feel weird becauseit went against morals of my own but I'm more worried about the fact that I'm not regretting-

it than anything. I don't know why I'm worried I have no regrets, I just know i am.

can see why you would be worried about that

can too, but if you make wise, healthy choices, you shouldn't have any regrettable consequences

better saying something on here. I really do. I think it will just take some mulling over and getting over my phobia of relations-

sit down and figure out what's important to you and your morals, and figure out what you're willing or not to do in future situations

outside of relationships.

and stick to your plan

sometimes we like to think we believe things, but in the situation, we realize it's not as important as it seemed in theory

Which is fine. It's easier to say "I'd never do that, that's wrong" when the situation hasn't come up

But it may not really be all that wrong. If you don't regret it, you don't have to make yourself feel bad to be a good person

funny thing... I used to throw up whenever I had sex outside of a relationship. No lie. And those who know me

know that's not the front i put on. You get past it, once you rationalize a bit. and get used to it.

nothing's wrong if you're not hurting anyone and nobody's hurting you.

Ditto what everyone else has said really, but adding in that virginity is pretty much a state of mind. You're not suddenly unclean.

In most Asian societies, giving away your virginity outside of marriage is a disgraceful & dishonorable thing.

There's nothing wrong or dirty about sex, OP. It's your body.

How does it change you? It doesn't suddenly make you anything less or more than you were before.