i almost feel like this should be wrong to me... but i just cant feel it.. cause it feels good

at the moment, yes, 5 years is a pretty big gap, but in another 5 years when one person is 20 and the other's 25, not so much.

It's all about maturity, and being on equal ground

and stages of development

yeah, that pretty much. it's hard to justify a 15 year old an a 20 year old sharing the same emotional maturity and experience BUT i mean

i was in a very loving relationship with a 20 year old at 15

it was probably one of my most cherished relationships honestl so

i can't say much ):

The twenty year old should have the responsibility to tell the fifteen year old to wait.

There's nothing wrong with them loving each other.

But it is important that the 15 year old not open the 20 year old up to a statutory rape conviction, so please be very careful

That's not a very loving thing to do. It could ruin both of your lives, so take it slow, treat each other well

thanks guys... i mean we weren't planning on eloping or anything, but i just wanted an outside unbiased opinion... someone whose eyes

arent blinded by the situation.

when you're both older, no one will bat an eye at 5 years difference

it is weird now because of legal implications, so what CND has said...wait for certain things

but do what makes you happy

hell, even just a year makes it seem a little better.

my best friend's sister dated a man seven years older than her at 16 and no one minded.

which, imo, means a 15 yr old and a 20 yr old *can* love each other, but like the others said it'll be a little bit

before both are on equal terms

which differs from person to person

in love with someone more than a decade older than me, and...yeah. I think age differences CAN mean a lot, but

only if you make it mean a lot. Otherwise, I've just found it more fascinating.

really thinks it's just the legal implications you need to worry about. the older should make sure to be responsible.