Breaking this rule is likely to end in tears, including your own.

I wondered where you went!

my PC died am back now!

I kind of wonder why this shouldn't happen because to be honest

I'd be happy to see someone happy with someone else - thats just me

Ive been happily married in SL for more years than most have, I've met my guy in real life and to be honest.. I have a different outlook.

I dont think someone should be grudge others happiness because tthey aren't happy about what happened between them.

If pookie decided he wanted to be with someone else, then I'd let him do it because I'd want him to be happy.

I don't believe for one single second if your husband went off with one of your close friends you'd be 'happy' about it. I also think most

Actually - I would let him do as he pleased because who am I to dictates someones future happiness in real life or second life.

women would agree that a friend flirting with their bf/fiance/partner is pretty much as low as you can get.

I do love him but I also know we are two continents apart and if he met someone in britain think i'm going to stand in his way? Not likely.

Perhaps said person wasn't flirting and was simply talking

and if someone flirts wiht my boyfriend I dont have a fit about it cause well thats where "TRUST" comes into play

if yo udont have trust you simply dont have a relationshi pat all

I'd hazard you're in the minority there. Said person has been happy to admit it wasn't just talking, in fact said person as gone as far as

saying it wasn't even 'just SL'.

I totally agree, and the guy in question is just as much in the wrong as anyone else.

depends on which party we are referring to

it takes 2 to make a relationship if said parties are unhappy then said parties should seperate and find what makes them happy

I totally agree, but, imho, the person's close friend is not an appropriate place to look for it, and vice versa.

In my book, it's kinda friendship 101.

adora- people who do not know ALL sides of the story probably shouldn't decide who is wrong and cast judgements upon people.

Friendship 101 applies at times, sometimes does not. However I dont see where I judged anything i simply stated and opinion on said subject.

Point being why would you even wanna stay with someone that wants to be with someone else. Thats more of a self esteem and respect issue

I think we're jumping the gun with the wanting to be with someone else lmao one party has it as a 2 day flirtation, the other has it as a

disney love story.

But I totally agree with you Aura, if it was my bf or partner in question, he'd have been told in no uncertain terms where he could go.

As would the 'friend' because noone needs friends like that.

then thats wher it needs to go

said parties need to fight the battle and everyone else needs to stay out of it

last post on subject i'm done with it i dont liek drama

you obviously just created a lot of it for not liking drama...

agreed. You're the one who turned a non specific, non drama plurk into something dramatic and personal. Because you were being loyal to

someone you care about.

Loyalty rawks.

agrees!