Oh?

Doesn't mean you can't say you're trans, if someone's told you that.

Yeah. I can't throw away everything up to this point. And no one's told me that, but I don't think I'd feel right calling myself trans...

Nothing says you have to transition

It's a huge step, with physical complications, and a tonne of potential difficulties.

Not wanting to transition has nothing to do with how you feel about your own gender

^ this

Ditto ^^

considers her own gender very fluid. Some days I feel very female and others I don't at all

Oh, I'm glad this popped up again! I've got a book rec for you, OP. (And everybody else, of course.)

Genderqueer: Voices from beyond the sexual binary.

It's a *really good* essay collection, I was lucky to find it at the library here... helped me work a few things out for myself.

Oooh, that sounds like a book I'd be interested in myself.