I like to get to know my SL friends in a RL way, but understand some have boundaries.

But to me they're still RL friends.

kfraenkel: LOL

I'm just curious! Everyone works differently. Was thinking about stuff while I wait for this loser.

It could be friendships or more intimate relations. Answers to both works. I'm just curious

for me if im in a relationship in RL, i dont mess around in SL....if im in one in SL i dont mess around in RL...so no, i dont seperate lol

went crosseyed typing that too

CaliDan_Hansome: lol I'm the same way so I understood

If i'm in a relationship isl , I let the person know about my RL , ETC

Depends on the person & situation. SL friends I push into RL alot of the time. As for relationships... i've had those that stayed SL and

some that went into RL... my last SL bf, well, I now live with him in RL and its perfect.

Nope. My RL husband is all I need.

I also don't separate SL and RL. SL is really just a creative outlet for me.

ill be totally judgemental, i think its digusting for people to have a rl gf/bf/spouse & an sl love. youve got some serious rl issues if you

need an extra in sl. and thats really really sad.

sl friends are great though. some id like to meet in rl!

I totally agree with Neva!

i think its totally adorable that my new sl friend met her bf in sl. and theyre real life now for two years.

I think it all depends on peoples situations, I've seen people who have a great RL and separate SL life but it works for them

i agree with katroll. you cant label a whole group of people as disgusting and mentally ill when you dont even know most of them

if someone is an an opent relationship and its not involving you or hurting anyone, who are you to judge?

i could never imagine a cartoon being able to offer me something my real bf cant. and if i need a "breather" or anything from the bf, its

for sure not gonna be with another guy.

then an open relationship isnt for you. doesnt mean you are better then those who are involved in one. to degrade a whole group is wrong

yeah, my personal preference to not have an open relationship is my own. 'B' was very into wanting an open relationship. I wasn't though.

Everyone is different.

and that would absolutely feel like cheating if i had that close of a relationship with another man. emotionally.

i just think if youre happy with your real life partner, theres no need to get a second bf. lol

^

aggreeing with katroll arrow

its an opinion. you can think what i believe is disgusting. thats fine with me. she just asked us. and personally, i think its wrong.

kateykatey: OH man I've definitely heard my share of.. gross you play SL all you do is pixel sex yadyady

i think im the only one that tries to get people play in rl. haha i have no embarrassment from playing adult barbies!

^

but i do think its disgusting i think mainly because i had someone on my timeline once that constantly talked down about her rl bf,

and praised the sh*t out of the cartoon one. and i felt so horrible for this guy i didnt even know.

^^

katroll is my hero

and i dont know, if my bf had a relationship on skype or something, id be crushed.

I have some people in my SLIFE that are married IRL and have completely different lives on SL from RL and it hasen't bothered me but me /

personally.. i couldn't do it. It's really hard for me. But that's just me! lol oh man what shit did i start by starting this plurk *bonks

no we all just agree to disagree. lol

(and im clearly insane over my bf so maybe im just too into rl bf)

yeah not angry. would take a lot more to anger me.

i think it would. i tried to make him join and did for 10 minutes declared it was only for girls and went back to golf. lol

i have one of my rl best friends in sl but hes been so slack. i think because i made him be a girl. lol

im in an open relationship and am extreeeemely happy in both *bows*

I am in no relationship lmao i guess thats why i was curious

maybe after tonight you could be at the start of one!

nevaseljan: NOPPE that aint happening lmao

dont have such a bad attitude! you could miss out!

my rl and I joined sl together, and we're partnered in sl.

if i get close enough to someone then no. otherwise sure. they dont deserve to be there

Oddly enough I just encountered this question. I've always said I would not have a SL boyfriend because of my RL husband, and if HE

were in SL and had a gf here, I'd probably have a problem. So I'll stand by that for a lot of reasons I won't discuss here. For the most

part I keep SL and RL completely separate, again for reasons I won't discuss here. I feel like the only thing that's important is that my

husband be totally in the loop because RL is the priority and that relationship is the most important one in my life. But in reverse... no

I'm kindof a freak because I don't blur the lines. Even with my closest friends in SL, who I consider friends just as much as my RL ones,

don't know that much about me and it'll probably stay that way.

But my dult does have a SL girlfriend now. And my RL husband knows all about it (and, let's be honest, he's stoked).

The two blend for me, but I am perfectly happy with my RL partner. Open relationships/poly is not for me, I do not think it is right to be

2 separate relationships if neither know about each other. If there is a problem in a relationship someone is having I've always felt

the best thing to do is to talk, work things out. If both are still unhappy then it's time to go a different route. But having someone

secret just well I dunno.. =/

Yeah I've always felt that it's emotionally cheating.

anyway I used to be close with this guy on SL and I went on SL for long periods of time and hung out with him 2-3 days in a row and it was

starting to feel like I was getting emotionally close with him and not paying attention to my RL bf, which freaked me out lol

Idk it's scary how things get really real even if it's just animated sits on a couch (SITS not sex lol)

That said, I doubt I'll ever be in an SL relationship cos I'm very superficial over guys irl

There are some awfully rl-cute guys in sl though loool xD

and I guess the answer is no I don't separate sl/rl relationships at all (that guy knew I had a bf whom I loved very much!)

i couldnt agree more lucie. then on the other side, if youre in a great rl relationship why do you even bother looking for an sl one?

but i know i "play" sl different than most & ill never really understand it. and im ok with that!

i know im in the minority, but your rl love cant be so great if you look for more in a cartoon game! im too rl based. lol