and when he does log in to sl by pure fluke he doesn't speak to me.....

I don't think you can :/ I've been there and it sucks D: I'm sorry D:

mmmmm it does suck big time, one of us has to make the move i think

it's not like we don't love each other, just RL making shit hard and it makes us both really sad

sadly i don't think you can make that situation work... I also hate to say it, but if your partner logs in and doesn't speak to you

that kinda indicates you're not exactly a priority in their life... I know it's harsh, but the evidence is there

yep truth hurts

i've been there... Long time ago, but i agree, it hurts. When you see someone who is supposed to be your soulmate, logging in and you don't

get that IM, then they log out again, it confirms it all. I know that i'm Sable's priority in SL and she's mine, so we'd never do that to

each other... I think it's time you bit the bullet and released yourself from the torment... I know it's not what you want to hear...

actually it is exactly what i want to hear because i've been going nuts over it, thinking that it's my fault and maybe i should just...

suck it up and get on with it and that maybe he has reason's, but when i IM him and say hi, his reply is sorry baby just eating

nah, him not IMmimg you when he logs in isn't your fault. Personally, it sounds like he's too much of a coward to end things as he thinks

there'll be drama and he obviously can't handle it. I'll tell you something else too... It's very hard being friends with an ex like that

i hate drama lol, if it's over it's over, i'm not gonna cry over SL.

if someone can sit at a PC and eat then they can also sit at a PC and eat, type and be cordial... "I'm eating" is not an excuse not to talk

fair play to you

Ur right i'm gonna do what needs to be done!! wish me luck, i'm going in!!!!

good luck... Give 'em hell

Go Get em Girl. Keep you head up