pain or heartache

i 2nd what crop asked

heartache. -sigh- she died in a car crash more than a year ago. I just saw something that reminded me of her.

i have been there,i lost wife and 3yr old twins in 2003 xinjaing china earthquake

my friend died in a car crash a couple of years ago- only daughter.

i forced myself to remember only the happy parts-i truly had a time w it.it was the thought of never having the oppertunity to say goodbye

that hurt the most-i demand it from close frens now-always say good bye,even if your angry-it very well could be the last one

and it brings a total closure to that point

yeah. I never had that closure. We had a fight that night. I was a wreck for months after that.

As much as I've talked to friends and loved ones about it and I think I've gotten over it a little, it hurts time and again.

i'm sorry bro

i truly know though,i truly do

thanks bro. =) It's no way to live by living in regret, and I know she wouldn't want me to stay in the dark either.

.....

Things like these really change people.

true- for me it was different, we never talked for months and then next thing i knew she died and it was all over the news

I'm so sorry to hear that kc. I'm sorry I didn't mean to get people down with my plurk.

yes,much

no its okay with me no worries~~

i harbor no bad feelings shinya-i have closure w my loses

rockizn: I'm okay, don't worry about it.

thanks. I guess we just all have days like this. Like crop said, I'll just use this day to remember the good things.

my heart still hurts until now..it's ok you're not alone..

thanks. and just so you know, you're not alone either.

u'r welcome and thanks