no, not better... just bitter.

about what?

this, though it's mostly me being bitter at myself... if that makes sense...

and "this" would be what exactly?

you know.

Actually this is really unclear. What "this" are you talking about

the breakup.. I'm in a bitter phase or something.

what do you have to be bitter about?

myself... my actions and my responses to things, not to mention how I've acted.

That's super vague, and I'm not sure how you can be bitter about what you did yourself. So... not quite getting it

maybe bitter isn't the right word... but yeah I'm upset at myself.

Then perhaps you should work on fixing something

and you know, not being a dickface.

huh... maybe. ..... maybe

definitely.

You've treated me worse than Tom ever did. And he is certainly a better friend to me now than you currently are.

you can't be serious.... worse than Tom? hard to believe.

completely true.

You know nothing about him. And at least he always has cared, even if he was an ass about a lot of things and did a lot of stupid things

you've pretty much shown me you never cared. So definitely worse.

I know what you've told me about him, which was never anything great.

things you should keep in mind when she tells you that you're worse

no shit..

then i don't know what you're not getting

I just don't see exactly how I was worse.

well the fact that he ever cared about her and not just the attention she gave him is a start

I cared.

could have fooled us

your behavior in the last few months an especially in the last couple weeks doesn't support that claim.

so because of that, it invalidates the entire relationship?

No, it doesn't support the idea that you cared about me at all during it

or that you care about me now.

which makes your treatment of me worse than Tom's

I just fail to see how any of that makes sense.. call it woman logic, idk. I don't GET you... I don't think I ever GOT you or understood you

but don't think for a second that I NEVER cared...

You certainly didn't act like it.

and then YOU invalidated any good feelings with your lack of shame or true apology and within day you decided you didn't even respect the

relationship and acted like you didn't respect me.

Actions speak louder than words Josh.

idk maybe it's my lack of a 'proper education' but I'm still failing to understand the logic in this... I don't think that a short stretch

of time can speak for the whole 10 months...

2+ months of ignoring me and treating me like crap and then ending it by cheating on me?

and then telling me about it and when I offer you a chance to fix it because Skype isn't really that bad and I thought we could get past

it, you don't call me, don't keep in touch, and get wasted. So I assume you don't care and don't want to fix it. And break up with you.

And then invalidating any respect I thought you had for me by the next day going and fucking the first person you could get.

which is just pathetic.

and then you are rude EVERY time I talk to you about it because I was your friend first and I'd like to stay your friend.

So based on your behavior in the last (now) 3 months I'm going with you didn't care ever, don't care now. and as you continue to be

unapologetic and uncaring I'm not really sure why you continue to bring it up like this. Because you aren't acting like you want to fix

anything and be friends. And you certainly aren't acting like you care or ever did.

fine then, I'll drop it.

If you want to fix it, then fix it. Man up and be polite and treat me like a human being if you want to be my friends.

friends care about each other. And you continually prove you only care about you

did you WANT me to fix it? w

I told you in the beginning it that fixing it is entirely up to you

you want me to be your friend? Then fix it.

You don't care? Don't want me as a friend? then stop moping about problems you caused and get over it.

you just don't even seem like you want to be my friend.

I told you, your behavior is what dictates it.

I don't want to be friends with someone who doesn't care about me.