disappear for ..a week?

finally text back at 1:30 in the morning on monday

fucking..

"Where have you been?"

"Taking care of my sister's kid. She's in the hospital."

it REALLY that hard to send a text?

Okay, for one... it was just a week.

I can't speak for him completely but.

If it's his sister in the hospital he could have had more important things to take care of and shit on his brain.

Because, hell, I know I would. Just chill man.

If it was like TWO weeks, then yeah. I'd be suspicious.

Like I said, I can't speak for him but it's something to keep in mind.

Yeah, and I do keep that in mind.

but it hasn't been just a week

it's been a week after piling on time ontop of that

he'll go days without a wprd even though i've tried contacting him

when we do talk on the phone he ends up unresponsive

even when i try to talk to him he'll stop talking. won't respond

Then if he causes you this much trouble, end it.

Just break up with him instead of dealing with it.

^

So instead of being like "he never talks to me he never gives me any time" just break up with him now.

Yeah, likewise.

i do too..it sucks

It's bullshit if you just sit there and deal with it.

but every time i go to talk to him with that in mind

And pathetic, imo. So end it because I know you can be a small strong thing.

there's always a family drama thing..

and then i feel like i don't have a right to be mad or upset

LMFAO Fuck the family drama thing then shit happens.

Wow.

That pisses me off right there.

Sarah, who fucking cares if he puts you through that you have all god damn reason to break up with him.

He can deal with it on his own

Fuck if he'll be upse, sure whatever it happens.

upset even

It's better than sitting around, whining about him.

LMAO Yeah.

..

sorry for being irritating?

Which is crap.

and im USED TO taking shit.

We're trying to help.

Yeah, I was too but it doesn't mean you have to sit and TAKE it.

If you want to sit there and take this crap from him because he has stupid family drama, be my guest.

But if you actually want to get up and grow a backbone and tell him it's over, then come talk to me.

i shouldnt do it now....

not because of him

or his drama

but because im surrounded by people

I have zero tolerance on this kind of crap so I'm telling you flat out.

There is never a good time for it so the sooner the better.

If he treats you like crap like it sounds like, then you shouldn't be upset like Bri said.

thanks for all the advice guys..

<3 it means a lot

Yeah, well hopefully it's some you'll take.

if i do anything right this second imma puke

imma just calm myself down right now and..yeah.