tomorrow is my birthday, and I was looking forward to hanging out with the husband this weekend

only real plans were for the Big E on Sunday morning because I have a college fair starting for 4:00 on Sunday

husband's dad calls tonight saying "we need you to help move furniture for us this weekend, we're redoing our floor)

when bill said we had plans for saturday but we would be in the area on sunday, husbands father hangs up in a huff

calls back and said that sunday would work but it would have to be the morning

it's my fucking birthday weekend, and my one wish is not having to see my in-laws, let alone MOVE THEIR SHIT

Tell him NO.

tell them you are unavailable for bullshit...then hang up in a huff on them

I am serious Bryn. No way no way!!! Go have a Bug E Cream Puff and taunt some food demos.

Big not bug.

I would be upset too!

(Happy birthday!!!!) It's hard to tell family (even in-laws) no, but maybe reminding them it's your birthday and you have plans will help?