Most assuredly, that is the question.

and the "nots" just keep getting heavier.

. don't let them

IDK what is going on, but if it is what I think then sister...kick the shit out of those demons! Channel the energy a different way and think of all the good, release the bad.

You don't scare me Miss Ellie! Don't make me get all ninja on you!

OK Maybe you scare me a little.... But I give you my admiration, respect and most importantly....huge hugs.

more hugs

Personally, in your case, I think the "be" option will ultimately win out.