YA HAVING 500 BABIES?!

and i'm gonna babysit and be titi meme

Nope

i am having 1 baby and then my uterus is closed for business -.-

lolll

but you can babysit and be titi meme !

im gonna pop out like 50

and live in a shoe

lmaooo

lmao be sure to have plenty of xanax handy!

lolll

put the kids in a separate shoe lol

hahaha

the bf says the plan for not having anymore is he is going to make himself completely disgusting to me so we won't ever have sex again

o.O that's a fail plan.

pretty much ! women have desperate times of need... and they sink below their level lmao so idc if he looks like grizzly adams and smells like that shoe you're going to live in

lol just tell him to get snipped! that's what mine is doing

i really wanna tell him that but then what if they think it worked and it didn't and i get preggo again ?!

that's really rare but yeah that happens once in a while.. i am trying not to think about it.. i don't want more than one baby either

you could both go get fixed then double insurance?

i don't think they will fix me bc i am 26 and this is my first kid.

I only have 1 and yeah it's a blessing and it's a bit sad sometimes too. Because he has to play alone when I don't have family/friends around. So maybe it's good to keep your options open?

I still have the option, I just got busy with life and my ex and split up and I never really made time to have another. But it's kinda nice to know I COULD have another if I choose to.

my kid will have to live with being alone lol i hated being pregnant

I hated it too. But it's rewarding.

to me it was terrifying but i have aspergers so it was a special kind of scary for me to go though

Yeah that's got to be scary. Everything went well tho?

well the bf has an 8 yr old son and then i'm having a little girl.. he didn't want more than his son but it happened and he def doesn't want more than two and i'm fine with just this one of my own

yes, i came out lucky, hour long labor and 8 pushes lol

wait. this got derailed.. what was the secret?!?!

lmao i'm watching pretty little liars .. this conversation is better

omg that is really lucky. I was in labor for 26 hours or so and it was super painful. It was horrible the lady next to me was like doing yoga and was relaxed as can be.

i woulda been tempted to hit her..

haha yeah for reals

i was just looking at her like wtf O_O

i did mine without an epidural and everyone looked at me like O_O how?

like she made me feel like i was exaggerating but seriously I wasn't!

omg I had an epidural and morphine.

i had nubaine and was induced, i had decided against an epidural but my doc said i wouldn't have had time to get one anyway. i went from 3cm to 8cm in an hour

i want al the drugs D:

i have no memory of pain lol i was way too high off of the narcotic

I think part of the reason I don't have another baby is that I remember the pain very clearly.

LOL poor Jessica don't be scared.

You can have allll the drugs! lol

yeah i just didn't have an epi cause the needle in the back thing scared me more than the idea of not having one

i was crying for an hour after i got the iv cause i had never had one and it was bothering me

they kept asking if i was hurting cause of labor and i'd be all "no my hand hurts D:"

oh yeah that reallyyy hurts too

it's really weird having a needle sticking out of your hand and being able to feel it move around and stuff.

with my sensory issues it was awful

ben kept telling me it was no biggie cause he's had so many (bad asthmatic has had to be in the hospital many times)

yeah it's different for everyone for sure.

i guess the fear of not knowing how the labor is gonna be is what is getting to me

yeah i was so afraid cause of all the stories about horrible 36 hour labor and then it was all over so fast i was like...wait..is that all?

part of me wants to be like can we plan a c section?

those arent fun either takes longer to heal too

oh i know..which is why i'm like eh lol

but if i end up having gestational diabetes and have a big baby or she just won't position right i won't have a choice D:

dont fret... i had GD and vincent was only 7lbs 8 ozs

not big at all

a friend of mine vaginally delivered a 10lb baby last may

oh yay.. you know all the stuff you read when you research these things lol

i do not want to push out a 10 lb baby O.o

it'll be ruined! lol

i was afraid vincent would be that big lol

i thought he was huge coming out and when they told me his weight i was like "seriously??"

hahaha..it doesn't help the bf keeps saying i'm gonna rip from my v to my a -.-

nah.. i only tore a tiny bit cause i didn't slow down pushing when the doc told me to (that's kinda hard cause your body takes over lol)