[gender] Just had a good cry after finally realizing why I've been terrified all my life of the bathrooms in places that have separate bathrooms for men and women.
The sad part is that no public places in this area have "men" "women" and "neutral". Either they have one bathroom everyone takes turns using, or they are divided into "men" and "women". So if it's a place
that has "gender specific" bathrooms, there is no bathroom for me. I will always feel jumpy going into the women's bathroom in those places.
