What did she do? Or it's just a general reprimand?

She's been very impatient with regard to certain things. She only wants to do her activities and has no patience for activities we need to do.

Eg: We go with her when she wants to feed the ducks. On the way home we need to pass by the grocery to buy stuff for the house. She would whine and complain that she doesn't want to do that...

And that we should just bring her home. Or that she shouldn't play with the dogs while they're eating, she'd argue... so... we cancelled one of her activities and ice cream.

Negative punishment is better than positive punishment, at least for me

What is positive punishment?

Negative punishment is when you take something away, positive is when you add or do something such as spanking or lecturing or additional chores or tasks

Uhum. I try not to spank as much as possible.

^agree... i do only when it's really bad and di nakuha sa kausap and not too hard

for some reason I am the Ninang disciplinarian