organize -> manage account -> privacy

that's what I thought

I have that: DW Private Messages Receive messages from:

and picked "Registered Accounts"

yup

still nothing

choose Registered Account or Everyone, whichever you prefer

...huh

I don't even have the everyone option :I

oh

probably because you're <18...

oh maybe

however, I just played a little more with some other things and now Raven managed to finally send me a message, soooo

no idea anymore how

but it looks like it works now

thanks anyway ;p

OH WELL good thing it works in the end |D