so. dad's girlfriend is not wearing well on me.

You're going home soon, though?

We continue to have the "trying to be my mom" issue and that involves a lack of privacy I'm not entirely comfortable with. I would like to be able to just say I'm going to a friend's for the weekend

and having them drop me off at the airport without her asking me what I'm going to do there. I figure that's enough information.

coupled with the fact that we keep having to have the "this is a firm date" conversation, it's starting to wear a little thin.

also yeah, soon. a week and a half.

We keep having the "no I said this yesterday" conversation. We've had the "I'm going here on this day and they're dropping me off at the airport" conversation about four times.

She's a little stuck on the idea of driving me down that day.

Sounds like someone who does not hear anything they do not wish to hear.

Yeah. It's very frustrating. I'm 20. I have my shit mostly in gear. She's been a stepmom before and I think she's gone into stepmom mode and made me her project.

I don't /want/ to be a project.

The whole "step-mum adopting 20-y-o project" thing never ends well ...

Good news is I only have about a week and a half before she's out of my hair.

Start crossing the days off on the calendar, and pack early?

Yeah. The worst thing is I like her as a person, and think she's compatible with my dad, but I can't deal with being made a project or something to fix. Hopefully it'll work out.

I am afraid I think a lot of it is just her. (Yes, I know her from my prior, pre-divorce life) But you're coming home, soon. And that's a Good Thing.