That sucks.

Yup. It sucks. And he's not moving to Minot, ND. Decided that it wasn't worth the pay raise to deal with the cold and the middle of nowhere-ness. Instead, he's moving into our other house b/c his landlord sold

his house and the new owners don't want tenants. So suddenly, we have a tenant and it's someone that I'm pretty sure I'm in love with. sigh

Maybe you'll win him over with your charm?

Maybe. I think the biggest thing standing in the way of that is that he's not poly and I think it bothers him that I won't have him as my one and only. I'd have him as my one and only besides Israel but I don't

think that's what he wants. le sigh

That's rough. Maybe since he'll be around all of you more, he could see how well it works out? I don't know if I personally could overcome the jealousy, but I've never been around that situation, so

maybe if I were and saw that it works, I'd change my mind? Hmm. It's hard!

That's kind of been my hope. That the more he sees how it works, the less it will bother him. Of course, since he also sees a lot of the drama that is created by Israel's other "wife" he might also run for the

hills with his heart because sometimes our little world looks like a hot mess.