khyle part of that was a jab at myself as a person who has to interject in any convo as if I'm an expert. Surprisingly few call me out.

I have that unfortunate trait as well.

My wife actually (a former anthorpology student) has a theory that men are enculturated to have such certainty regardless of facts.

i used to be that way too. not any more. - Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt. - Lincoln

and I am the quintessential fool.

i can pull off talking about topics with authority, it makes me fee special.

i can too, that's how i passed my public speaking class with one of my highest grades of the semester. I just got sick of the crap.

I can spout with absolute authority that would dim any doubt. The growth is learning that the only reason is ego and my ego embarrasses me.