
mga walang galang sa ina nila. Ina nyo.
the childfree camp of the internet thinks motherhood is just a badge of martyrdom. Like you have a choice not to have kids yet you chose to have kids bakit ang dami mong reklamo type of thing
they are not impressed by the sacrifices mothers need to go through to raise children by the argument na "ginusto naman nila" daw yun
they feel that motherhood is glorified when according to them it's nothing special and not that hard. Of course they wouldn't know coz they're childless
napaka-ingrata lang ng dating nung mga ganung sentiments, ewan ko kung lumaki ba sila na walang ina or what.
Yeah, pero nakakainis kasi na pinili rin naman nilang maging child-free, bakit ang insecure nila? They hate mothers day coz it makes them feel bad about not having kids
medo bitter nga yan. Ang hirap talaga magpalaki ng bata ah. Di mo kelangan maexperience yun, kahit magnilay nilay ka lang kung pano ka pinalaki ng magulang mo maiisip mo na mahirap yun.
atsaka pag choice mo bawal na magreklamo? syempre mffrufrustrate ka, maiinis ka, magrereklaml ka pero in the end yung mga nanay naman babalik uli sa pagiging nanay dahil nga ginusto nila yun.
unless na lang baliw-baliwan yung nanay na tipong pag nagreklamo sya at ayaw na nya itatapon na lang nya bigla sa basurahan ang anak nya.
kaya nga e, I keep wondering if the child-free people who complain about "glorifying motherhood" had bad moms. Why else would they complain against moms. I mean ikaw naman walang balak magka-anak right? Pero
naa-appreciate mo naman ang nanay mo and mga nanay in general diba? Di mo naman nafi-feel na hina-hype masyado ng media ang pagiging ina?
nope di ko nafefeel yung hype.

I admire my mom.
it's one of the reasons why i don't want to have a baby. I know how hard it is to be a mom.
That's a very self-aware reason
Enzo
sinasabi 10 years ago
I think having children is a 'paying it forward' kind of thing. Your parents raised you well so you could contribute to society and your best contribution/repayment it to take care of the next one to contribute
Enzo
sinasabi 10 years ago
Parenthood should be about humanity moving forward through generations of people raised in kindness. I don't believe that it's an obligation but I think the best thing to repay your parents for raising you
Enzo
sinasabi 10 years ago
is to be one.
Enzo
sinasabi 10 years ago
And the best thing you can expect from them is the hope that they will be good parents, too! It's not about you, it's about the generation before you and the next
Yeah, I think it's as good reason as any to have kids. ^_^