You should be offended if I said something like 'hey I didn't like your item because you are stupid and smell like an old Dell desktop.' but if I was critiquing without being an asshat about it...

so if i didnt buy it... for example the little cop car you made (I have a hard time with my adult av so this is just for example) and said, 'hey I really like your stuff but I didn't buy the car because it...

you know was a wrong color or I didnt like the straps or something like that... would you take it into account?

I know you can't please everyone but would you take the negatives and do something with them or just move on? does one persons opinion matter?

gotcha. but would it tick you off that i took the time to mention it to you?

what if i was a regular customer? what if i asked you 17 more questions?

if i came to you and said 'hey i'd like that shirt in red what would it take to get that in red...'

i see. so all in all, has customer feedback been helpful for you? sometimes i just see all these plurks from creators and every comment is 'WOW!' if someone dropped a 'hey i like this but.....' would that be

kosher? or would they get crapped on by everyone?

i just feel like a lot of people get offended really easily here (i dont belong to creator groups because i'm not one and only have a few plurk friends who make things) mainly the ones who aren't the makers.