honestly his boner for the People > anything he could feel for anyone else (obvs)
and it's nearly impossible to say what he'd be like in a normal relationship since every time you make a pass at him, he pulls away first because GOD FORBID HE GIVE IN
but i think it's fairly obvious solas is drawn to idealistic and relatively optimistic people (HELLO GRYFFINPUFFS HE CANNOT AVOID YOU) like they're these mystical unicorns
he spends so much time being miserable, those sorts of people are beacons of light in his life and he cannot stay away from that - hence he trips over himself for lavellan even knowing he shouldn't
(and when you're not a gryffinpuff he p much Does Not Like You evilavellan can attest to this)
it's also pretty clear he likes to keep his personal life on the dl
given that he's living a lie, being sneaky is kind of his MO
idk what else to say about that except that he tries to keep his distance from people, fails, and then is baffled when he realizes he's slipping them Fade tongue
EVILAVELLAN uses romance to emotionally manipulate people and probably doesn't feel love at all
(Solas do you need Cole to find you a date?)
(set him up with dasha, cole)
(dasha is a gryffinpuff with ravenclaw tendencies, solas doesn't know what to do he's so confused)
cole should do this anyway
"solas is lonely need to find him someone to make googoo eyes at"
Cole believes himself to be the spirit of wingmen.
He will help you Solas don't you worry.
There is no possible way this could go wrong.
It's going to go so horribly wrong
Cole is learning to cook he will make them a romantic candle light dinner and learn to play the violin.
... The worst part is he's got such strange habits anyway if he went "Dasha sit here okay stay there." I can't imagine it would seem any weirder than hording daggers in barrels or discussing movies with Solas.
everyone would go along with it and then suddenly romantic dinner date