Oh my good lord, so much anxiety. I would die if I had all those people coming up to me all the time. Watching me open all the gifts. Just noooo

Yep which is why I think I have Ken convinced we should just go to city hall or vegas or something where we dont need all those people there.

That. and the people I like enough to justify paying all that money for them to basically have a good time live outside of Arizona.

Right? I wouldn't mind a small wedding, but the 300+ people that my sister wants at hers....no ty

ahahaa yesss i hate weddings !!! i did a tiny party of 10 close ppl when i married and was great really no much hustle and tradition stuff which i hate too lool was perfect !

Yeah I told ken we can go get married in vegas or whatever and just have a party or something at some point. I like my bubble having to be social and stuff, no im good

We don't do bridal showers here. I went to the Harry Potter studios for my hen do (bachelorette). Just do what you want to, don't be someone else. I'm not the kind of girl to go clubbing, with a blow

Up penis - so I didn't

The greatest decision we ever made was a "Stock the wine cellar" shower. Total score especially if your friends and family know anything about wine.

Regardless, no one is getting you a bottle under 40 bux.

twinsies

I just hate pretending to like large groups of people and faking that I'm glad they all came

and small talk. And there will be people who will think a wedding is a good place to talking about annoying stuff at which point I will start speaking my mind and I'll be subjected to stares from my mom and

a lecture later how I need to be polite no matter how rude the other person was because they raised me better than this

I want no wedding. I just want to sneak off and get a marriage license and that's it. No one needs to know because if we invite one we'll feel obligated to invite others and before you know it, it's a wedding

I had 50 people in my parent's back yard. It was great.

weddings never seemed that fun to me

Mike and I went small and I dont feel like we missed out on anything at all. The only time i do is when i watch those damn wedding shows

In the end it's about the marriage, not the wedding.

Think of it this way: How many couples can call for a reservation in a restaurant the same day they get married?