I just never know if it'll be a good day or a bad day.

This cancer stuff needs to be over now. I have things I wish to do.

Can she come to yours? Have a pj party

^

ArianaSz is smart. she knows things.

She definitely could, but I'm not really super fun while in pain. I usually just want to sleep lol.

I think we should have a pj party

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. If it were me, I'd tell her I definitely want to, so let's make a plan (pj party sounds great!), but don't be mad if it turns out to be a bad day.

She'll be understanding, your pain is not in your control.

all us creaky leaky achey breakies.

You need to start taking your medication, mate. They're called pain killers for a reason. Can your doctor sort some that don't make you feel dippy?

Like yesterday I was okay, but today I've barely made it off the couch. My insides are just excruciating. I feel like people will think I'm just being flaky

You have cancer! That's not flaky! Anyone who thinks that, needs a smack

No one's going to think that, especially not a friend, I promise. You're super sweet and wouldn't just flake on people, especially not and then lie about the reasons.

like people who want to hang out with you probably know you, which means they know you're an awesome person.

so their default reaction to scheduling conflicts will not be "she's a bad person" but "she must have a good reason"

but maybe that's just me

my dear, you are much more critical of yourself than anyone else is likely to be. I doubt anyone thinks you're a flake.

it makes perfect sense for you to keep your plans loose in case you need to catch up on some rest. Folks will understand

Your friend is gonna understand. Say you want to do lunch or get dinner but you don't know if you'll feel good upon the agreed time.

Maybe you can do a 3 day window and see. I would be like "Amy call me for dinner or lunch or hanging anytime you feel good and I'll try to

Make it work. " trust me your friends want to accommodate you.

Hugs

We need to have a tinker bell movie marathon! Perfect for pj parties lol