The con is two hours away and I do want to see people....but it could also be very stressful

-given anxiety and the painful "discussion" I had with a friend recently

Plus then I'd have to drive back Sunday for work

But the dance is the first meetup of a group I just joined that I can actually go to

And it'd give me the chance to meet some new people and make new friends in the area

And it's at a pizza place I've been wanting to check out

Tbh I think I'd rather go to the dance. I don't want to deal with the one friend

Plus pizza

And meeting other lesbians! Even if it seems like a lot of the ones in the group are older but whatev